Monday, November 10, 2008

just studing is not enough for our lifes

Michi is my housemate.he is korean but he grew up in Japan and Canada. he graduated from Stanford University and have studied 2 years in France,he can speaks Prench,english,japanese and korean very fluently.his degree is so high than other people.his family has really high education.he have worked for Panasonic and many big banks in the US.now,he is 37 years old. he is very successful but he knows time to get married coming.it is so hard for him because he has no experiences about love.when he talks with us ,he tries to hide it,but his social behaviors are so bad. he thinks i am from Vietnam so i do not know what the hell he is saying.actually,the entertainments in VN for me it is much better than here a lot.last 3 months,he registered to a sicking web to find a right woman who might become his wife.he got a date with a korean american girl.she is 5 years younger than him.they just met 2 time and he became crazy with her.he bought a diamond ring which cost him 7.000$ and he bought a lot of gifts to her,stupidly,a underwear he still bought 1000$ and they eat in luxury restaurant.behind those dates,he eat stupid food.when we went to market,unbelievable he tried to buy a cheapest soy sauce. he did not know how to impress a women.he just showed them that he had high education,money but he did not know how poor his behavior was. in his mind,he told me he should marry her in this year,he thought love was easy like his study.last month,he went back to japan to quit his job and prepare for life with her in the US. he was so concieted with his degree and his lover.ridiculously,he bought his car before he went back Janpan because he did not want to waste his time with her when he came back to the US. 3 days before now,i met him in the hallway of my house,he told me they was broken.he told that girl wanted to see his financal statement to make sure he had money.he loved her too much and spend too much money to be broken.now he can not find a job in here because of financial crisis ,he sells back his car without driving.next week,he will go to New york,hopefully he might find a job in there.
i just want to tell that.study is just a supplement for you life.it does not main you will success in your life,because your life is effected by your relationships and your love. if you know balance your life for studying and social life to get good education and good social behavior. the percent you become a successful and happy person is higher then those people.

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